I have a message for the people I know, not all of you will relate but most of you will be able to pick out a person in your mind who fits this criteria.
The topic is self-destructive habits.
If you are constantly digging yourself into a hole, or doing things that you know will not turn out in your favor then you may be contaminated with self-destructive habits.
I have been asking myself one simple question lately:
Why do I do the things I do, or Why do I live the way I live?
I consider myself to be a fairly logical person, so when I realized there were many things I do for no apparent reason it caused me to look at my life in a new fashion.
I myself do indeed have self destructive habits, as do most human beings.
I continually don't allow myself to succeed.
I limit myself to not achieve any of my goals because in my mind I don't think I can.
I am afraid of failure, but all that gets me is failure.
I encourage everyone who reads this to ask yourself this same question.
If your life is bleak and unchanging then fix it.
I am a strong believer that the only thing that limits us in this life is ourself.
How much more could we accomplish in this life if after every time you aspired to do something you didn't immediately follow with thoughts of denial, telling yourself it isn't possible or you can't do that.
I found this list today. Read it.
I know it says for people in their twenties, but really anyone at any age could follow this advice.
"Authentic happiness isn't something that we can go out and get, beg, borrow, or steal, it is only something that we can be, and it is a choice we make with every breath we take."
Life is up to us to live.
Your definition of living will be different than mine, but be true to your own definition.
Preach.
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